How to be a Relentless Encourager
So, my mom died last month at 80 years old. Unexpectedly, peacefully, painlessly. Still, I miss her. More on that later. THIS is just a quick update to say that one of the things I loved most about my mom was that she relentlessly encouraged all of her kids (and their kids, and so on). We were supported and loved and that just means the world.
And for the past several months, I’ve been dabbling with sharing my sketches and watercolors. Mom was a self-taught painter (oils mostly). With her example, and just GOBS of encouragement from my friends and family. I did it.
I had a fairly successful writing website and blog during the last decade. I’ve fully owned the title of “Writer,” but “Artist?” Such self-doubt.
Then yesterday I participated at my first art fair craft show market thingy. It was Castle Street’s Makers Market here in Wilmington, NC. And everyone there was also very encouraging. Doesn’t mean everyone who stopped bought something. Still, many did.
Complete strangers.
Stopped and looked at my crooked art and took some home after giving me their money.
The artisans participating in the show were simply the best. Despite some early squirrel debris (IYKYN), set-up went smoothly, I had help figuring out how to take Apple Pay, and was encouraged by many to keep showing up.
Definitely felt mom’s presence. I strive to support my own kids, friends, family. AND I believe all humans are creative in some way. It’s important to me. I even made a sticker “Be a Relentless Encourager.”
So how do you do it? Here are the steps:
Pay attention to people.
Ask people questions.
When you suss out that they’re passionate about something, or nervous about trying something, say kind but true things to them.
Go back to step 1 and start again.
Relentlessly.
